Nowadays its common to hear that a good woman or good man is hard to find, and as with most things in life, it is. Sometimes it takes some bad relationships to realize the qualities you need in a mate. More often than not we sacrifice our happiness and our future by settling on one or two qualities a mate might have which we think we are in need of. But in reality the answers we are looking for all begin with ourselves. Here are some common sense tips for males and females from an objective point of view.
Lets start with our tips to the single woman. There are a few musts in order to find the mate you are looking for. First you must know and LOVE yourself. There has to be a level of confidence, arrogance, swag, whatever you want to call it you must have it. You must also understand the male species is SIMPLE. They are not the emotional beings females are. To be honest its alot like looking for and training a puppy. You begin by doing your research and find the type of dog you like. You don't settle for the dog which is cute but makes your life a living hell. You pick the one which is right for you. FINDING A MATE IS NO DIFFERENT!! Next, if you pick a dog and you find it does not meet your needs you either sell it off, give it to a local shelter or humane society. Mates are no different!!! If its not working, it won't work. Although you can't sell your mate you can dispose of a relationship which is not healthy for both individuals. KNOW WHEN TO SAY WHEN. I would like to repeat Men Are Simple. If a man comes up to you speaking as if you are an object and not a human being, you know where that relationship, friendship, etc.. is headed. If you are an object in the beginning, you will always be an object, whether that be a garden tool or punching bag its a bad start. Its also important to know there is an abundance of ignorance in the world and it multiplies by the day!!! Sometimes its not so bad to be a stuck up B*#@h . Its a good force field to have.
Now on to the males. This is real simple, Be Yourself!!! Don't try to be someone your not to impress your friends!!! If you would not say it to your mother don't say it to another woman, no matter what age they are. Players are not cute or cool either!! Players play games, games end!!! Either by retirement or injury!!!! Don't follow trends, set them. It gains respect and rides are always better in the front seat.
There it is!!! Simple!!!!
